Going Away/Returning Thread

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Wed-2-Mar-2016 16:04:41 · 1,488 comments
The Blue Print

Do you guys ever think that some of the old 4wers might have passed away? I mean out of all the years this site has been going, there probably was a one or two.. I hope not, but we'd have no way of knowing which is sad 🙁

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Wed-2-Mar-2016 16:26:14 · 5,103 comments
Admin and 4CW Head Booker

I hope not considering they are all aged between 15-40ish... no age for anyone to die.

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Wed-2-Mar-2016 18:35:02 · 56 comments
Jobber

I remember that nearly happened once. Someone's roommate came on and said that (I don't remember who it was, I know he was a 4CWer though) so and so died. Then, the guy shows up a month later. Turns out he was just away on business or something for a while and his buddy tried to fuck with all of his friends lol

And the name is Jaco!

... because I can't fucking figure out how to change it...

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Wed-2-Mar-2016 18:37:26 · 3,230 comments
Admin
Jaco wrote

I remember that nearly happened once. Someone's roommate came on and said that (I don't remember who it was, I know he was a 4CWer though) so and so died. Then, the guy shows up a month later. Turns out he was just away on business or something for a while and his buddy tried to fuck with all of his friends lol

I remember that. Was fucking harsh.

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Wed-2-Mar-2016 18:40:33 · 5,103 comments
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Wasn't it Rated M?

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Wed-2-Mar-2016 19:19:10 · 1,488 comments
The Blue Print

I remember that one too, cruel cruel cruel lol

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Fri-13-May-2016 22:47:28 · 12 comments
Jobber

Hi guys! Created a new account because I couldn't remember my old e-mail address. Currently working two jobs(posting from one of them now, lol!), and playing a ton of Hitman and Batman Arkham Knight on the PS4 when I'm not working or watching the Penguins in the playoffs.

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Fri-13-May-2016 22:48:38 · 3,230 comments
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Verno_Inferno wrote

Hi guys! Created a new account because I couldn't remember my old e-mail address. Currently working two jobs(posting from one of them now, lol!), and playing a ton of Hitman and Batman Arkham Knight on the PS4 when I'm not working or watching the Penguins in the playoffs.

Do you want me to merge the accounts with your current email address (and removing the underscore in your username)?

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Fri-13-May-2016 22:50:05 · 12 comments
Jobber
benjawi wrote
Verno_Inferno wrote

Hi guys! Created a new account because I couldn't remember my old e-mail address. Currently working two jobs(posting from one of them now, lol!), and playing a ton of Hitman and Batman Arkham Knight on the PS4 when I'm not working or watching the Penguins in the playoffs.

Do you want me to merge the accounts with your current email address (and removing the underscore in your username)?

That would be great. Thanks!

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Fri-13-May-2016 22:51:41 · 3,230 comments
Admin

No worries. I'll likely be doing the big update tomorrow so will add this as one of my "things to do"

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Sun-15-May-2016 09:30:39 · 3,230 comments
Admin

Verno, I've updated your account. Merged the two, but with all your updated info. So you can log in without the underscore in your username now.

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Wed-18-May-2016 01:39:30 · 1,175 comments
Administrator

Hi guys... umm i have bad news on my end of things... my relationship of five years is over... i'm beyond devastated and honestly not sure what to do with myself... i wish i could go to bed and never wake up....

So i'm probably going to disappear for a bit and pop in time to time... i need to do some soul searching... the pain i feel is unbearable... i thought she was the one..

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Wed-18-May-2016 08:43:56 · 3,230 comments
Admin

Aw no way man... sorry. Been there, so trust me when I say you can get through it. Never thought I'd be happier than I was, and a year later I found my current girlfriend of 7 years who get's me even more than my ex, who I thought got me better than anyone would. It's really tough, but you can get through it.

Play some games, watch some great films... do the things you enjoy and that make you happy. Don't let it consume you.

My personal method:

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You have some good friends here as well, and you have a few of us on Facebook... so if you want to talk you always have us 🙂

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Wed-18-May-2016 11:13:45 · 1,762 comments
Better than Essa

I'm here too, brother. Whatever you need.

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Wed-18-May-2016 14:37:56 · 654 comments
The Moon Maiden

All the best to you, Snake. Oldschool 4Wers have your back.

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Wed-18-May-2016 16:02:49 · 5,103 comments
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Sorry to hear that Jon. My internet is limited at best ATM but if you see me online on Facebook you can hit me up anytime.

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Wed-18-May-2016 18:21:33 · 447 comments
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Oh man, I'm really sorry to hear that Snake.  I'm always available to chat if you need me 🙂

Alone time and your own space is always good, but don't hole yourself away.  Keep busy by doing what you enjoy and do things you've always wanted to do but haven't really gotten around to doing yet.

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Thu-19-May-2016 21:17:46 · 1,175 comments
Administrator

Thanks for caring guys.... this has been extremely hard on me. it reminds me of how i felt when my father passed away.... i try to keep busy and distract myself with things i'd normally love to do... but i just lose focus so easy...

You know someday this might fix itself... maybe we just need time apart... but i can't count on that for sure.

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Thu-19-May-2016 23:17:49 · 731 comments
Main Event

I truly hope things work out for you buddy.... Life may suck at the moment, but it'll get better, eventually. Keep going, be strong. And I do hope things work out between the two of you.

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Sat-21-May-2016 01:23:30 · 1,175 comments
Administrator

I thought i'd send an update to say i'm not dead.

Its just been tough.. trying to keep my interests up but everything is kinda suffering from this... i was even sent home the other day for the week for seasonal job... boss saw it all over me and said to just go rest. i haven't used any drugs illegal types anyyways.... just don't have the urge much... i usually take adderall because i buy into the idea its a smart drug and i do a lot more while on it... but no i have no urge for it.... i've been drinking a bit every night i cut myself off before i get close to drunk... i'm a dangerous person to myself when i'm in an unstable mood and drunk.. so i guess the moderation is ok cause i can still sit and type this out right now.

guys i do appreciate the well wishes.... many of you guys have been brothers to me for over 10 years now..... even chux should up to support me.... means a lot buddy because i know you don't visit to much let alone post.
some of you guys have new names so i don't know who you are right now.

Ben i appreciate what you had to say.... just right now and for sometime i don't really want to date anyone... i need healing and me and her have spoken about the future this isn't the end all thing but it could be too...i have felt we needed time apart for a while we just haven't been seeing eye to eye much nothing like we use to.... it just sucks cause she won my heart over so fast she is so much fun and so much like me to the point where we talked and said were a lot a like but thankfully we have enough different to love each other.... just stunned really... i know she worries about me still she is keeping tabs and i don't want her out of my life... she didn't cheat on me or anything... she just felt we needed this for now.

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EoE
Mon-18-Jul-2016 20:53:29 · 8 comments
Jobber

Just stopped by to say hi!  Can't tell you how pleased I was to see so many old friends on the user list of the new forums.   Had some great times on the old forums, some awesome through-the-night chats; so much fun.  Great memories. 

I LOVE YOU ALL!

(except Essa)

🙂

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Mon-18-Jul-2016 21:12:44 · 3,230 comments
Admin
EoE wrote

Just stopped by to say hi!  Can't tell you how pleased I was to see so many old friends on the user list of the new forums.   Had some great times on the old forums, some awesome through-the-night chats; so much fun.  Great memories. 

I LOVE YOU ALL!

(except Essa)

🙂

Dude, you have no idea how much I miss your build up to the Rumble. Was always better than the WWE build up to it.

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EoE
Mon-18-Jul-2016 21:26:52 · 8 comments
Jobber
benjawi wrote

Dude, you have no idea how much I miss your build up to the Rumble. Was always better than the WWE build up to it.

Very kind of you to say so!  I'm still a huge Rumble mark and love watching them all from 88-2011... but I've outright hated every Rumble since then  🙁

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Wed-20-Jul-2016 14:46:21 · 83 comments
Money Bags
EoE wrote

I LOVE YOU ALL!

(except Essa)

🙂

Its like a forum tradition to take shots at me, god damn. Glad to hear you are alive and kicking.

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